Rant 1: "Aren't You too Old to be dressing up?"

*queue eye roll* I know, I know... but this is a common question all of us cosplayers get AT LEAST once in our career (but let's be honest, we would all probably be rich by now if we were given a dollar every time someone asked us this question).

First, let me explain my 'Weekly Rants'. You have hopefully read the title of this blog, "Photographer Rants". I feel like this title is pretty self explanatory. At least once, weekly, I will provide you with a rant pertaining to photography, cosplay, or (usually) cosplay photography, because we all have things in this field that irk us to the point of ranting. So, without further ado: my first cosplay photographer rant.

"Aren't you too old to be dressing up in costumes?" *cringes*

I can't be the only one that wants to respond with "aren't you too stupid to be talking?". Instead, let's take a step back; we grew up in this society where people are taught that it is only okay to wear a costume one day out of the year: Halloween. This is fine. Halloween is great. Halloween is a holiday favorite to most cosplayers, but what about the rest of the year? What is it about these other 364 days that makes us "too old" to still be doing this?

We. Love. Cosplay. We love it for the same reason people love Halloween: for a short amount of time we get to forget about everything horrible going on in the world, and we get to just magically become someone else. Okay, not magically. More like through blood, sweat, tears, and many sewing needle sacrifices, we get to become someone else for a short amount of time. Everyday life is exhausting. Some of us are students, some of us are teachers, some of us work multiple jobs, some of us have rough home lives, some of us have children of our own, etc. The point is, we all have things in our life that are great, but there's a lot of experiences in life that are just plain stressful. Life would be boring if all we did was wake up, go to work, come home, sleep, and repeat.

For some of us, cosplay began with curiosity when we saw someone dressed up as one of our favorite tv show/video game characters. For most of us, it began with our friends, or people we care about. The main point I'm trying to reach is that dressing up in costumes is only a small part of what we love about cosplay. I know that for me, personally, cosplay is about the people I get to be with, and it's about building confidence. It's also about growing as a photographer, and being able to create art (like the photos above). I get to recreate some of my favorite tv show/video game scenes completely from scratch, and share them with others that have this in common.

The girl in the photos above and to the left is a dear friend of mine. Her name is Sadie. You can find her on Facebook and Instagram.

I chose Sadie because she is my favorite person to take photos of, and she is nothing short of a beautiful person inside and out.

I feel like she is such a great representation of the cosplay community we have all come to know and love, as well as what we should all strive to be.

There are many cosplayers like Sadie who aren't afraid to do what they love, and I will be featuring them throughout this blog.


[Another cosplayer I wanted to mention, Phaedra Cook, is a 48 year-old cosplayer who wrong a blog post in 2014 titled "Never Give up, Never Surrender: Cosplay over 40". Please check it out if you want to hear from another cosplayer on this topic!]

Whenever I hear someone say "you're too old to cosplay", I always respond with "you are NEVER too old to do what you love". Never let any one make you feel like you are immature for doing something that brings you joy. Keep being you, and keep on keeping on.
-Lindsay Soard